Update 8 Samir & ?? (his girlfriend’s name?)
Ajeeb bat thi ke ladki jo Samir ke liye dekhi gayi uss ka naam tha Samira. Iss baat se donon Samir aur Samira ko heyrani hui aur Samir ne socha ke shayad yeh kismat ka khel hai aur unn donon ko kismat ne hi milaya. Kehte hein nah ke rishte upar se bankar ate hein to Samir ne eisa hi socha ke har rishta upar wala pehle se hi bana diye hote hein aur yahan dharti par humko milna baaki hota hai.
Afzal ke shadi ke thik ek hafte baad Samir aur Samira ki mangni hui. Samira ek khub surat ladki thi aur filmi heroinon jeisi dikhti thi. College mein padhati thi yaane teacher thi. Modern thi aur bilkool Shanaya ke ulti mizaaj ki thi. Yeh wali bolti thi khulkar sabhi se. Ab teacher thi to open minded thi. Isske bare mein Samir aur Afzal ne bat kiye to donon doston ne apne apne man passand ladki ke bare mein yehi kaha ke kaun kissko kabhi pehchaan sakta hai, woh to dhire dhire ek dusre ke saath jiwan bitane ke baad thik se ek dusre ki pehchaan hoti hai aur zindagi aguey badhti hai.
Afzal apne shaadi se bahot khush tha aur Samir se kaha ke usski biwi bahot achchi hai aur ussko bahot pyar ho gaya uss se. Magar Samir to Samira se ab milne aur jaan pehchaan karne wala tha mangni ke baad. Eise rishton mein shaadi ke baad pyar hota hai shaadi se pehle nahin. Shaadi ke mahinon baad ek dusre ki asli pehchaan hoti hai aur ek dusre ke kareeb hote hein do dil.
Phir bhi Samir mangni ke baad Samira se milna chaha aur donon mile bhi. Samir ka rawaya jo pehle ladkiyon ke taraf tha woh badalne laga tha par woh ziada khulkar ladkiyon se baat nahin kar paata tha. Keise bhi usske dil mein kuch kuch darr aur ajeeb si soch thi jab ladkiyon ko sochta tha aaj kal ke haadson ko lekar. Iss modern zamane mein jo aaj kal ho rahe hein aur jiss tarike se ladkiyon ko chhuth mili hai uss se bahot sare ladkiyan usska ghalat istemaal karte hein aur khud phanss jate hein baad mein aur pachtaate hein.
Samir jab apne muhalle ke doston ke beech mein tha ek din Samira se milne ke baad to phir se wohi ladkiyon ke bare mein baat karne lage to iss baar unn logon ke beech ek 55 saal ka adher aadmi bhi tha jo sharaabi tha aur dukaan ke kissi koney mein pada rehta tha aksar. Woh inn nawjawanon ki batein sun raha tha to kuch bolne ki ijazat mangi ussne.Samir ne usssko bolne ko kaha. Woh tajurbekaar aadmi ne yeh kaha;
“Yaro, baat yeh hai ke iss zamane mein pariwaar apne aulaad ko samaye nahin de pate hein. Donon maa baap kaam karne nikal jate hein aur bache ko ziada chhuth milti hai kuch bhi karnne ko. Ek zamana eisa tha ke hum mard kaam karne jate the aur bachon ko ghar mein biwi sambhaalti thi, usske nigraani mein rehte the bachche, aur phir ghar mein dada aur dadi bhi hua karte the. To bache ke parvarish ek eisa vatavaran mein hoti thi jahan ussko bahot sara pyar aur apnapan milte the. Aur bache badon ka lihaaz karte the, sabki izat kartte the kyun ko ussko yehi sikhaya jata tha. To bache apne dada, dadi aur maa ke saath pale bade hote the to usska assar kuch aur hi hota tha. Magar aaj kal donon jawan maa baap ek flat mein rehte hein na dada hai na dadi, bache ko nursery mein chorr jaate hein aur iss bhaag daur ki zindagi mein paisa kamana ziada important ho gaya hai sab ke liye. Uss zamane mein sirf mard kamata tha aur biwi aur bachchon ko paalta posta tha aur padhata bhi tha; aaj donon pati patni kama rahe hein phir bhi paisa kum pad rahe hein.
To baat yeh kehna chahta hoon jo pyar aur apnapan bachon ko maa baap se milna chahjiye tha woh nahin milte bachon ko. Isska bura assar padta hai bachon par aur phir teenage mein kadam rakhte hi bache wohi karte hein jo ussklo achcha lagta hai, koyi drugs ke taraf badh jata hai aur koyi prostitution ki taraf. Har ladke ladkiyon ko bahot ziada chhuth mil gayi hai aaj kal ek dusre se milne ko kyun ke maa baap ke paas samaye hi nahin yeh dekhne ko bacha kiss se milta hai, kahan jata hai, kia karta hai…. Kuch pata rakhne ka time hi nahin hai parents ke paas, subha ko kaam ke liye nikalte hein parents aur der raat ko wapas ate hein, bache ke saath thik se time bhi nahin bitate to eise bache kia banenge bhai? Isssi liye aaj kal ke ziada tar teenagers ghalat raaste par hein aur itna kuch ghalat ho rahe hein samaaj mein!! ….. Ab abhi tum log jo jinn ladkiyon ke bare mein baat kar rahe the unn ka environemeent kia hai? Sab jaante ho nah? Uss Kavita ke bare mein baat kar rahe the tum log abhi nah? Pregnant ho gayi choti si umar mein, college girl hai aur pregnant. Iss mein dosh kisska hai? Jiss mahaul mein woh pali badhi hai pata hai tum logon ko? Kaun usski dekh bhaal karta hai? Maa baap unnke saath waqt bitate hein? Akeli rehti hai din bhar, college se wapas ati hai to kitne sare ladke uss se milne jaate hai uss ke ghar, maa baap to hai nahin donon kaam par gaye hote hein aur rat der ko wapas ate hein. Koyi nahin hai usski dekh bhaal karne wala to ladki kia karegi? Kaun ussko samjhega? Eise bahot sare cases hote hein jo pyar aur apnaapan nahin pane ki vajah se bhatak jaate hein. Kayi ladke eise hein jo drugs ki aadi ho jaate hein. Yeh teenage umar hi eisi hoti hai jab har tarah ke cheezon ko aazmaane ka mann karta hai. Yeh eisi umar hai jahan ek direction ko follow karne ka mann hota hai, ek badlaav zindagi mein lane ka mann hota hai… aur ache guide nahin hone ke kaaran bache wohi karte hein jo usske mann mein ata hai. To aaj kal ki ladkiyan iss liye eise ghalat tarah se behave karte hein aur issi liye aaj eise ladkiyon aur ladko ka sankhiya badha hua hai. Main dosh sirf maa baap ko hi dunga! Jiss maa baap ne apne bachon ko sambhala aur pyar diya unn ke bache to sahi hai jeise tum log ho! ….. mujhe yehi kehna tha!!”
Aur woh aadmi ek taraf chala gaya. Samir ne dosto se kaha,
“Yeh to bhaashan de gaya yaar!”
Ek dost: “Magar bilkool sahi kaha jo bhi kaha uss ne!”
Samir: “Sach hai, hum log to apne maa baap ke karib hein. Unn ka control raha hum par chohte se hi, magar uss kavita ko to bahot ziada chhuth mili hai bachpan se!! issi liye woh eisi nikli nah!”
Baad mein Samir sochne laga ke usska soch ghalat tha ladkiyon ke bare mein… shaayad woh ghalat hi soch raha tha aur unn ladkiyon ko kos raha tha aksar…magar dosh unn ke nahin the, eisa Samir ne socha iss baar!!
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Ab Samir Samira se milne gaya kayi baar, kabhi college khatam hone ke baad, to kabhi Saturdays ko donon mile, café gaye, pizza khane gaye aur thoda ghumne bhi gaaye. Samir ko usske ziada karib jane mein hichkichahat ho rahi thi.yeh pehli baar zindagi mein woh kissi ladki ke saath tha, pehla kiss bhi nahin kiya tha. To teesri ya chawthi baar milne par Samira ko ek makaan ke piche legaya, donon khade the aur Samira Uss makaan ke deewar par apne peeth kiye khadi thi ke Samir ne ussko deewar se chipkaya aur dhire se apne donon haton ko Samira ke hathon mein dala aur donon ke panje ke ungliyan ek dusre ke pancho ungliyon ko jakre hue the, jab Samir ne apne honthon ko Samira ke honthon par dhire se nazdik kiya aur halke se chuma!! Samira ne enkhen bandh kar liye the magar Samir usske chehre ko nihaar raha tha…aur usski honth ko chumne ke baad Samir ne dhire se kaha, “I love you”….. Samira sharmaayi, sar jhukaya aur dhire se jawaab diya gaalon paar laali late hue, “I love you too” Phir to samir ki lag gayi yaaro….. Ussne, Samira ko uss deewaar se daba diya aur apne jism ka wazan Samira ke pure jism par agaya aur Samira Quaid ho gayi Samir ki bahon mein aur donon ke munh ek dusre ke munh ko chumne lage……
To be continued………………….
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